[Jay T]

I am currently 7 months pregnant and I am not sure how I can handle to live on my own and my baby. I am working full time and full time student. I dint have any family and friends here either to ask for help.

Can I get child support from my husband? but he said if i leave him, I can have the baby and he wont care. But he wont give me any money for the child. He said his excuse will be he is going to school and cant work. but I do both. why cant he find a job and give child support.

He also said he'd rather be in jail than to give me any money.

How can I make him help me financially? i cant leave the baby to him while I'm gone, i dint know what he can do to the baby since its a girl.

[Paula from Maple Street]

get a late term abortion. I'm tired of paying for other Pol's dam kids.

[chase g]

If he has no income you cant

[bombhead]

Wow. Why would you breed with someone like that? You can leave him, and he will have to pay child support or go to jail. And it sounds like jail's the best place for him.

[Odi Et Amo]

If he don?t have any income how can hey pay child support. Court cant make him work.
Since you have a job try to mange by your self. Get any help you can get from your family members.
There is no point in asking money from him as a revenge.
It is Gina be tough in the beginning, but once everything get settle down you will be just fine with the baby.

[Molten Orange]

In a way, I feel badly for you being in this situation. But then again, I am sure that if you are honest with yourself, you had all the indications in the world of how and what he was and still married him anyway, right? The chances are very high that you did see them yet you decided to overlook, ignore or tolerate the things you thought a problem with him. Now you decide that these problems are too much for you. Wow.

You are worried about money. Can you stick him for it and how much? That is your concern.

Lady, frankly, if he is willing to sit in jail, just what is it that you will be able to do to make him pay? Not much. Instead, people like me will end up carrying the load once more for things we had nothing to do with. The people who make poor choices, who will not live up to their vows or what they promised will get off and the rest of us will have to pay the bill for them.

[flaka474]

He said...but the law counts go to your county's "Family law center." They will tell you he is just Soho full of it. And what laws are and help fill out forms to file yourself for divorce and child support, custody, and answer all questions. A DNA test might have to be petitioned so just in case do that too, if you never file them great but if you have to it will save you a trip.

After the baby comes check out childcare that the family and child services (food stamps, medical care, will tell you about and any training programs to get a job, you have a great life ahead, and a child to share it with, don't think of the negatives its up to you and your determination, your life can be great!