What should I do about my crush that claims he's a sex addict? -
02-18-2009, 11:58 PM
I have a crush on this 19 year old guy that I met at college. We've been friends for about 3 months and we are both interested in each other. He seemed like a pretty cool guy.
I saw on his Myspace page of how he mention ted that he had a secret that he doesn't like to admit to. I asked him what this 'secret' was and he refused to tell me. I kept playing around with him and tried to guess what it was and he finally told me. He said that he's a SEX ADDICT! I didn't believe that he could be a sex addict as I can tell he is slightly inexperienced.
A week later, he admitted to me that he did amateur porn for a few months to help save up money for college. This is all crazy to me and I don't know what to do.
What should I do?
I don't care if he watches porn.
stop talking to him. Because if you guys get serious he could be watching porn or if times get bad he might just go back to his old ways and do amateur porn again.
Well if he is inexperienced then he obviously didn't do porn. He seems like a liar that just wants attention. Find someone new, don't get caught up in that crap. You will just regret it later when he lowers your self esteem.
I mean, if you think he has potential, and you really like him, then give it a try. I would just watch my back though.
If he is looking to be in a relationship- then again, give it a try.
If you think he is gonna play you for the sex, then I probably wouldn't, and just move on.