[fluffernut]

Yea you might want to forget about him. He's going down a destructive path and unless you want to follow him, leave him.

[hunkapunk]

Lil he tells all his visitors he has a "secret." i think his real secret is that he wants secretly wants to feel special and unique.

[LizzieBeth]

I think he's just playing with you. He's probably not and didn't want to tell you the real secret, but said something just to get you to stop harping on him about it. If he's inexperienced then he probably has a problem with not getting it and the "addiction" is wanting it.

[TEXAS TREY]

Try to help him get out of this addiction and try not to get involved with him too much until you know for sure that he is over it...... also it is a very good sign that he admitted this so he is heading in the right direction

[anonomus]

W-O-W
i have never been in the situation..so i don't really know
If you guys really like each other you will find a way
put him in rehab if he is really addicted

or.....
just f*** him every hour

[I am Anemic Royalty =)]

Sex addiction is just as serious as drug addiction or gambling addiction. My advice is certainly don't have sex with the guy even if you get together, at least not until you're several months into the relationship. Certainly be understanding though, and one way you can see if he wants to get help for it is find a support group locally and tell him about it. If he does know he has a problem he'll probably interpret it as a very touching and caring thing for you to do for him, particularly if you present it that way. If he doesn't, or resists it, hold off on the relationship thing because it will likely lead to heartache for you when he cheats on you.

[missypcat]

i think he is just playing with you try to get proof about this stuff

[dreamsong67]

I hate to say this to you but you need to forget about this guy. I mean if he is a sex addict then he's never going to be able to be in a normal, happy, healthy relationship with anyone until he gets treated. And if he isn't a sex addict but is claiming to be one then he just has a lot of psychological and emotional baggage that i don't think you want to deal with, or have time to deal with for that matter, considering the fact you're in college. And like you said it's just a crush. If I were you I would just leave before the situation gets more serious. Oh and about the amateur porn thing, we, i mean do you really want to have a boyfriend who's a porn star? I know I wouldn't. Well I hope this all turns out for the best and I hope I helped

[Thunder]

well if he's seriously addicted then try to help him through it. at least he's admitting he has a problem and is addressing it as one, so he's probably willing to get help and all.