[gala ria]

Im 13 years old and I'm a female. my twin brother and I were adopted when we were 3 years old. And i have no memory of it at all. and most people who say there sex addicts have a tragic story to there lives like they were raped or anything else. I first had sex when i was 6 and it was from an 11 year old male. and i met him cause they were my moms friends kids, there were more than one. than when i was 7 i had stayed over at a female friends house and we were changing into our pajamas but instead we ran around the room naked than lay ed in the bed together naked but we didn't do anything sexual. Her mom walked in and freaked out. Her mom told my mom and i couldn't be around the girl ever again my mom sat me down and told me bout the birds and the bees ya know? that talk that kids get. than when i was about 10 years old around thanksgiving my moms friend with the kids invited us over. we hadn't seen them in a while. the boy was 13 years old when i was 10. He also had an 8 year old sister and a 5 year old brother. well anyways the boy asked if i wanted to play in his room and i said no at first than he begged so i finally gave in. The house was very big it had bout 3 floors. anyways he told me to follow him in the closet so i did or he would've pulled me in. he told me to pull down my pants and i didn't i ran out but he caught me and than said "just do it it will be fun an quick" so i did. and than i pulled my pants down and so did he and than he made me give it to him oral he forced me to lick his....ya know. and so i did. i didn't like it one bit. so than he forced me to have sex with him like he did when i first met him. I didn't like it one bit i felt ashamed that i let him do this to me but i didn't tell anyone.Now, to the part were i think I'm a sex addict. ever since i was sexually abused by him it has affected me. I have guys ask me out and want to have sex with me and i have never said "no" to one of them. from 11 to my age now [13] i would say i have had sex with 5 different guys 3 of them in my grade and the other 2 in 11Th grade. I do feel ashamed of myself but yet i don't want to stop. i just don't understand. also my mom who put me up for adoption was a crack head and did drugs when my twin and i were in the womb. the family i live with now i could never ask for a better family they accept the best for me and nothing less. they don't know that I'm doing these things at all. i just would like to know are these like the signs of a sex addict?

[curiouskisses]

No.

It just means that you're an easy lay and you'll roll over on your back for any guy who you consider to be cute or anyone who has drugs.

Truth sucks, doesn't it.

[mysti]

There is no such thing as a sex addict in my book but this is total bullshit for the record

[janlopez]

I would definitely say you need to see a therapist about this. You are way too young to be having that much sex. You might be suffering from a form of PST

[Ultra Violet]

yes i would say you should talk to a counsel or trusted adult about it. they can help
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[YourFriend]

No, that isn't anything like be addicted to sex. Go go ogle what being a sex addict actually means, because what you just said is far from it. If you don't like it, what makes you think you're addicted to it? that doesn't make any sense.
if you're ashamed & don't like doing things like that, then don't. I've had sex many times w/ people I had just met, I felt ashamed, therefore I stopped. simple.

[TIA]

You are not a sex addict. You like sex and there is nothing wrong with liking sex. One of the important considerations for you is practicing safe sex. That means the guy uses a condom all the time and with no exceptions unless you want to get pregnant, contact a Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD), HIV, or AIDS. You feel ashamed of yourself for having sex with 5 different guys and you don't want to stop. There is a reason for you to stop. The reason being that you want to make sure you don't get knocked up in your teens, which is a distinct possibility as your body matures and your reproductive abilities increase as you mature. The signs are not the signs of a sex addict but they appear to be the signs of a girl who likes to be abused by more guys because you were sexually abused in the past. In effect, you are punishing yourself for the past sexual abuse when it was not your fault, it was the guys fault and you went along with it and now you feel guilty and blame yourself for not saying no. This punishing of yourself is manifesting itself in your accepting the guys asking you to have sex with them and causes you to not want to say no to them because you have a low self esteem of yourself and think of yourself as not being normal because you didn't have the guts to say no when the first guy sexually abused you. The cycle of punishment will continue until you make the decision to not punish yourself or feel guilty for the sexual abuse. You have the choice to feel and act guilty and punish yourself. I suggest you make the choice to not feel guilty, not punish yourself, and say no to guys who ask you to have sex with them. You will feel a new power when you say no and tell the guys that you don't want to have sex until you have a strong relationship and have love feelings toward a guy. This will help you not be an easy mark for the guys and you will be able to have a boyfriend with whom you may have feelings of love and want to enjoy sex with him rather than random sex with guys who don't have love feelings toward you and you don't have love feelings toward them. You are a female and your body is yours and you are in control of how you use your body. Do you want to be a sex object for guys who will throw you out when they are done with you or do you want guys to treat you with respect and not demand sex from you. This is your life and it is your decision as to how you chose to live your life. I will tell you that because your mother was a crack head when you and your twin were in the womb, you both will have the tendency to have addictive personalities, and that can include any type of addiction, drugs, alcohol, gambling, and sex. This is something you will want to learn more about and were you to feel that you don't want to develop addictive behavior you will need to undergo psychiatric therapy to help you learn what you need to do to not develop addictive behavior. Your life will become better were you to not develop addictive behavior and you will not be plagued with drug, alcohol, gambling, or sex problems or addictions. The choice is yours and the future is yours, and you have the choice to make the future better or worse. I hope you will make the right choice so you can lead a happy and complete life.

[Andrew C]

are u joking or are you serious??????