[lymphedemapeople]

me and my boyfriend have been together on and off for 6 years, we have a 3 year old son together, an there is no doubt about him loving me, i know he does. he has asked me to marry him may 1st 2010, and he want to have another baby with me. But threes just one problem. He is addicted to sex, he can not be faithful, cause he will have sex with anyone!, he says he's trying to change an i know he's trying, but he just cant stop! i love him so much and i want to be with him and help him, but he is easily lead on by other girls, all they have to do is ask him for it and he gives it. What can i do to help him? is there some type on counseling we can go through that will help him? or what can i do? i give him sex every time he wants but that seems not to be good enough. PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE.. p.s. i live in NC.. so any counseling in NC would be great. Thanks

[arigolony]

I'm so sorry for your situation. This is a very serious matter and he needs to truly seek help for himself. You cant do this for him, he needs to want the help. You need to seek help for yourself in dealing with a person addicted to sex. I saw a show on Dr. Phil regarding a similar situation. Please visit their site at WNW.DrPhil.com. Good luck to you and may God be with you.

[Dr. Nayyar]

I'm sorry to say if he is an addicted it's not only girls he's doing..if your smart and want to protect your child ,pillows and other household item and the family pet you should make him do counseling and maybe after months or years he might beat it .truth is most don't .if you love your child you should leave

[da'zone]

shall I tell u one thing...

are u there?

[sid]

If he will agree to it, put him in a male "Chastity Belt" and lock his manhood while you hold the key.
Tell him you will only let him out if he is really nice to you. dint be weak , you need to be strong for this to work. Let him know that every time he makes you happy will earn him a reward. So for example One week of dedication and love he shows towards you, allow him to get some sexual pleasure. That will be the reward for him. pretty soon he will be eating out of palm of your hand.

[Dr Devi Riot]

look he is not suffering from some kind of illness he chooses to have sex with anybody, its his choice.
you sound like you are defending him. you may think he loves you but no, that is not love.
your life will be full of misery if you stay with him. i cant say 'stay' because hes not really with you.

[GlamChick]

Sex addict, I love it. Tiger Woods 2. They all just like to play with no punishment.