[Helena B]]

So i was raped and molested for 4 years of my childhood. my girlfriend knows that. but i believe i am a sex addict. i dint care who i do it with and it doesn't matter what they look like. I t doesn't even matter if its a guy or girl. I will pretty much have sex with any person. (except family).
so how can i tell my girlfriend i am a sex addict.
BE AS DETAILED AS POSSIBLE! OR YOU CAN JUST TELL ME WHAT TO SAY
well its really hard not to cheat. i ha vent had sex in 2 months. it is killing me. i dint know when she will be ready to have sex. i dint wanna rush her either
damn. i told her and she dumped me....
fuck this fukkin shyt dude.

[Richard G]

shit
jest tell her
strait up

[beachbabie18]

.....um mm.tell her u are a sex addict.but will u cheat on her by being a sex addict.

[megzzz555]

I recommend seeing a psychologist about this. Being a "sex addict" isn't normal... and you shouldn't tell your girlfriend yet if you aren't really under control or else she'll probably end up feeling pressured & that could strain your relationship with her.

Life/Relationships are about more than sex!!!!

[sweetmom82@sbcglobal.net]

just tell her sit her down and tell her

YOU : i have to tell her something important
GIRL : yes?
YOU: baby I'm a sex addict
GIRL: however she reacts

help?
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[gorge momma]

This is how I would say it. BTW: I'm a girl:

"Hun (if you really care about her), I know that we have been together for a while and I really like you but I recently figured something out with myself. I am addicted to having sexual relations with other people. Please except me the way I am and I will except the way of life you will take".

I know it's cheesy but I think that would be the right thing to do, to be honest with her. :-). Hope I helped!

[cork]

U had better tell her b4 she finds u in bed with a guy, her sister, or even her! Tell her the truth exactly as I do. "NAME GOES HERE, I AM A SEX ADDICT AND I WANTED 2 LET LET U KNOW THIS BECASE I LOVE U AND I DON'T WANT U 2 B SHOCKED IN CASE ANYTHING HAPPENS. I'M SORRY, BUT I JUST DON'T NO IF I CAN CONTROL MYSELF. U KNOW WHAT HAPPENED WHEN I WAS A KID. I THINK THAT THAT WAS WHY I AM WHAT I AM 2DAY. U UNNDERSTAND RIGHT?"

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!

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[redhawgs]

just like u told us here...

[jew pie]

well ... your in a tough place. it doesn't seem to be your fault that your a sex addict. but maybe you should talk to someone about it. like the doctors that listen to your problems.... (Lil, sorry I'm so dumb, i just cant think of the spelling. Lil) i think you should tell her, though. she deserves to know. who knows, maybe she will want to have sex with you.

[lil 1]

that's not healthy.

i was raped in my childhood as well, so i feel your pain.

but first you need to inform your girlfriend about this. she needs to know about something that hectic.

then you need to go see a counselor. because if you really love your girlfriend, you'd find any way to make each other last a lifetime.
it will be hard, but it'll all be worth it in the end for her.

i hope this helps. and good luck! My prayers are with you.