[Zita L]

For the sake of the kids you should /try/ to stay and work things out back to the point that you are (both) happy. If you try and give you all and you are still miserable, then you know you did what you could and can divorce without regret.

He recognizes he has a problem and wants help. It might be smoke-screen BS, but if this is the first time he's admitted that you should act on it accordingly.
Get him help, enforce the rules, don't enable.

Dunno what the odds of "relapse" are; it will heavily depend on him and you and the nature of your marriage.

[Space case]

he is on line looking for sex.. seems to me the problem is your husband + a computer = bad marriage...

So, throw your computer out! If that cannot happen - then throw your man out! Either way, problem solved.

[Albertusmorkel]

Turn off the internet and tell him it won’t get turned back on until after he’s received help for his little problem.You say you are married and he acts this way and you are asking if you should stay for the sake of your children. Everything is wrong with this question, since when did you life get set on the back burner, you and your children deserve better, let him have his fantasy and leave.

[Tegan]

Hi,
Your is sex addict. When he watch such sex stuff on internet go and talk to him. Tell him that you want to try all that sex possition he is watching right now. Also try some new ways of sex this helps him to get rid from this addiction.
Good Luck!