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03-25-2009, 11:24 PM
You have already tried to talk to him. You cannot change him. You can only change the way you react to him. So now is the time to back away. Spend less time with him, be busy when he calls, and when he asks why, tell him that you do not want to get sucked into what you perceive to be a dangerous addiction. Addicts take hostages. HE has to be the one to accept he has a problem, nobody can force him to see it. Forcing people into rehab is a waste of time and money...they have to lose everything first.
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