[Stormy]

I've done a lot of research on epidurals, and although they can provide great pain relieve, they can prolong labor and increase your risk of a c-section and epistotomy. What can I take for pain relief? I've heard Demerol is the best.

[caramel haze]

idk i would think that would affect ur baby more and it would be really drowsy.. i think their are going to be side effects regardless of what u do..... i really dont want an epidural for those reasons also but im afraid i wont beable to handle the pain

[Melissa S]

There are a few different IV meds available. It's best to talk over your options with your doctor. The IV meds will not stop the pain but will make it manageable. Your best bet is to make sure you go in with pain management techniques. Back rubs are good as well as a warm bath, changing positions, and relaxation. You might also look into hypnobirthing.I have decided not to have an epidural for the same reason so am using a midwife and planning a water birth if everything goes as planned. Another thing to look into is hiring a doula, they can be helpful.

[Dana B]

I personally had two epidurals and my sister in law had 3 and we didn't have any problems at all. Neither of us needed to have an epistotomy. Now my Lil sister had her baby and used no pain relief at all and she wound up with an epistotomy and more pain than I care to discuss.I have heard that Demerol does in fact make your baby drowsy and can cause more harm than good. Just be careful!The best advice I can give to you is to talk to your OB and tell him/her your concerns and see what he/she can suggest for you.Good luck on that up and coming Lil one. I wish you, your family and that baby all the best in the world!!